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“For many women, marriage is not for life any more. Life is too long. Marriage is for love. Love starts with lust, which can last a few hours, a few days or a few weeks. Next comes infatuation, which lasts on average, 3 to 12 months before attachment takes over. When the blinding cocktail of hormones subsides after a year or so we see our partners in the cold light of the day ad those little habits we found so endearing at first can begin to become irritating”. Says Allan and Barbara Pease.

Its known to be fact that women are becoming more than men on earth so the issue of polygamy is necessary but some also stand by the Christian principles which states man was made for one woman as seen in Genesis 2:18 and 21-22. “And God said, “It isn’t good for man to be alone; I will make a companion for him, a helper suited to his needs”. Then the Lord God caused the man to fall into deep sleep, and took one of his ribs and closed up the place from which he had removed it, and made the rib into a woman and brought her to the man”. (Life Application Bible, the Living Bible).

If you want to attract a long-term partner as a woman do these two things says Allan and Barbara Pease the new international best seller.

Play hard to get, in love studies, acting shy, bashful or coy was found to be very effective when used by women on men who were seeking a long-term partner. It’s said coyness is an indicator of fidelity which stands on men’s criteria for a long-term partner. On the other side if a woman is perceived as an “easy- lay”, a man assumes that she’ll also be easy for others men.

Show less skin, posing sultry on your social media or provocative sends the signal you are a woman available for casual sex any moment from now. One study showed men and women a series of the opposite sex that the more skin a woman showed and the tighter- fitting and more revealing her clothing, the higher men rayed her as potential sexual partner but the lower they rated her as a long -term partner. Interestingly, the lower cutoff a woman’s dress and the more she revealed of her boobs, the less the men could remember or cared about anything she said.

How you manage your finances or business, is another observatory factor from my perspective to see most girls single, some men could give you money to test how you spend to know if they can secure their finances to you, for most women who blow such an opportunity it’s become a strong factor for women to stay single and rather be men’s intimate partner without official attachment which is to say marriage.

Avoid hypocrisy it’s surprising the number of marriages getting filed in the divorce courts yearly by observation so far, all because a partner lied, or some could call it the double standard. Humans naturally are drawn to truth even if the object it for the first time because truth will be truth. Most women who were insincere at a point to get married became devastated wives or single again. It best to be truthful no matter the cost.

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